Hailey's Turning Two

So...this Sunday, we officially begin the journey into the 'terrible twos'.

Here is: Letter to my Daughter On Turning Two.
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Dear Hailey -

You will be entering into your 'Terrible Twos' in a few days, so here is your annual birthday letter to mark the occasion.

The age of two is a time that parents traditionally fear, when they see their sweet baby turn into a little person full of arguments and contradictions. They envision an immediate future filled with tantrums and time-outs waiting for them. Maybe they are looking ahead and dreading the war on potty training or the constant battles of wills with a cranky toddler.

I want you to know...that is not what I see when I look at you.

• When I watch you argue with me - I see you asserting yourself and developing independence.
• When you change your mind - I see you beginning to understand who you are and what you want.
• When I see you in a time out - I see you learning responsibility for your actions..
• ...and when you apologize - I see compassion.

It might not always be obvious to me at the time, but I do see it.

You are full of crazy contradictions that make me laugh. I see a girl who is so concerned about her appearance that the wrong clothing choice will set her screaming, but who still doesn't like her hair to be brushed. You are a toddler who loves to have water dumped on her head during a bath, but milk spilled on your foot will make you run to Daddy.

It's not only what I can see, but what I can hear as well. You are no longer just repeating words said to you, but starting conversations all on your own. Single words are becoming phrases and sentences. You respond to questions with understanding. Like the great moments in history, I remember exactly where we were and what we were doing the first time I realized I was actually communicating with you... and I almost cried. You say the terms 'please', 'thank you' and 'bless you'... not because we ask, but because you know you should.

As you play with your toys, I can watch your incredible imagination beginning to take shape. When we read your books, I can see every connection you are making by the look on your face. You are putting together ideas with the world around you... and it is as amazing to watch as the miracle of birth itself. When I was pregnant I was excited at the prospect of seeing you...but now I feel like I see a new you every single day.

I see: a comedian, a daredevil, a warrior, a dancer, a perfectionist, a tomboy and a princess. I see a lot of your daddy, a little of me and you as no one else could be. Mostly, I see my daughter, beautiful on the inside as well as the outside and I see how much a part of me you are. Watching your child grow, develop and become an individual is the most amazing and frightening experience a parent can have. I can't put to words how proud and privileged I feel to be a witness to the beginning of the person you will become.

For me, the only thing that is terrible about you being two, is that it can't last forever.

I Love You Hailey Bug - Mommy